You're the Problem I Want – The Successful Method for Resolving Conflicts

  • The new book by communication experts and bestselling authors Iris Gavric and Matthias Renger. 
  •  Over half a million followers on Instagram and TikTok. 
  • Informative and entertaining, with numerous practical examples.
  • Taiwanese rights of their bestseller Shitmoves sold to Business Weekly.

‘I have a problem with you’ – the successful method for resolving conflicts

Problems shape our lives – in relationships, at work, in the family. What if, instead of always suffering from our small and large disagreements, we could grow from them? And do so with enjoyment!

In their bestseller Shitmoves, Iris Gavric and Matthias Renger uncovered rhetorical tricks and offered appropriate responses. Always under the guiding principle of winning the other person over, rather than just winning the conflict. Their new book continues this approach and shows how we can rethink recurring problems from the ground up. Creative conflict hacks that defuse conflicts with new perspectives and lightness help turn opposition into collaboration. Instead of getting lost in the same discussions over and over, we can gain life-changing insights, break destructive rules, and dissolve entrenched patterns.

This book provides proven tools to not just endure problems, but actively shape them.

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  • Publisher: FISCHER
  • Release: 24.09.2025
  • ISBN: 978-3-7587-0020-0
  • 240 Pages
  • Authors: Iris GavricMatthias Renger
You're the Problem I Want – The Successful Method for Resolving Conflicts
Iris Gavric Matthias Renger You're the Problem I Want – The Successful Method for Resolving Conflicts
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Iris Gavric

Iris Gavric and Matthias Renger , hosts of the successful podcast Couple Of , have written the bestseller Shitmoves , post viral content on social media, and perform sold-out live shows. Their analyses of typical communication problems strike a chord because they decipher status games and nuances with acumen, depth, and humor.

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Matthias Renger

Iris Gavric and Matthias Renger , hosts of the successful podcast Couple Of , have written the bestseller Shitmoves , post viral content on social media, and perform sold-out live shows. Their analyses of typical communication problems strike a chord because they decipher status games and nuances with acumen, depth, and humor.